Two minutes of silence really isn’t enough when it comes to thanking and honouring our veterans. But sadly there are those who do not stop to remember, their lives over take the meaning of day and they continue to rush around with out a thought. Terry Kelly puts this into a song and a wonderful video for all to take the time to stop, bow your head, and remember.
Well my two wee little baby cousins (aka the Brats) have a band called Solidarity… it’s actually a pretty dang good band at that. They are based out of Windsor Ontario and have been doing gigs around Ontario for the last few years now. They have also had air time in Windsor and played at a few festivals. They did put out a CD a few years back called “Transgression” (hey brats if that’s the wrong name email me) and now they have another CD out called “Overcome”.
They’ve now put out a little promo of themselves on youtube.
I of course think they rock… might be a bit one sided though. Either way check them out on their myspace page and their own site.
I can probably thank my mom for me listening to Pavarotti, and now that he’s gone I appreciate him even more. I ‘ve always loved his voice and comic character when he was on stage, but one of my favourite songs and probably one of his best performances was Nessun Dorma by Puccini.
I’m back! With the second part of our mini vacation to the UK for a wedding.
On the Saturday of the wedding, we had some time to go to the local shopping mall in Telford… aaaaaaahhhhh a real mall!! There aren’t any malls where I live and I can honestly say I miss it! Normally I wasn’t a mall person living in Canada, but after nearly a year of not having one right next door, I miss it. I had a great time wandering around looking at different things I can’t get in NL, or going into the department stores and *sigh* getting all I need in one stop. Oh sure we have the V&Dhere in, but it still doesn’t add up to Sears or the Bay, or even (yes I’m going to say it) Walmart. i enjoyed walking from store to store without being run over by bikes or getting rained on! Soon though we had to leave so that we could get ready for the wedding.
We arrived at the school a bit early and saw Jonathan, his family and best man taking the official photos. So I was able to give him his Toronto Maple Leaf gift. This was my version of something old, something new, and the blue part. But as I mentioned to Jon, it’s to bad they suck! [ this part here is for Jonathan - yes I know they beat Detroit the other day - but 1) it wasn't a regulation game and 2) Detroit just felt sorry for them losing all the time and threw them a bone]. We then went into the church to wait for the ceremony to start.
Unfortunately we weren’t allowed to take pictures during the service so I wasn’t able to get Sarah walking down the aisle, or a picture of Jonathan looking like he was going to pass out, but we did get some nice ones after the service. The service was lovely, they chose wonderful music and great readings to go along with the day. I had one reading to do Corinthians 13, and as much as I like to talk, I hate public speaking. My nerves didn’t get the best of me though and I didn’t rush through according to those to said I did a good job…I think Frank paid them. Following the service, they had drinks and hor d’ourves on the grass, it was really nice and for the most part I was able to enjoy some of the treats but man I wish I could have had more since the seafood ones looked so yummy!! While we drank and ate, Jonathan and Sarah did pictures. Frank was able to get in there and take a few for our books. 
The only complaint I had (and it’s not their fault) was the weather…HOLY MAMMA it was cold!!! I knew I should have brought a sweater with me but of course forgot as I walked out the door. I’m not sure how Sarah managed to walk around in her sleeveless dress all day but she did!
Soon after we headed inside for a really nice dinner and some great JAZZ (in caps for a reason – SOMEONE will know why) music. Then afterwards Jonathan got on stage and played a few diddies for us, I’d show you the video of it but for some reason it won’t up load… grrrrrr…There was dancing, cake cutting, drinks, laughter and all in all good fun. Unfortunately since my sleep schedule was a ruined thanks to the Calais hotel I couldn’t keep up. So we left around 11 and headed back to the hotel. I don’t remember my head hitting the pillow! All in all it was a great day.
The next day Frank and I headed to Shrewsbury to do some shopping. They have a Toysrus and of course I had to go!! We don’t have one here so I wanted to take advantage of a little shopping! I bought the baby’s swing and the bumbo from there since it was so much cheaper then buying it here in NL. After we headed right into the town.
Our first stop was the Shrewsbury Abbey, for the price of one pound you are able to buy your permit to take pictures. This was a great thing, I would rather pay the money then be told no you can’t take pictures inside then I have to sneak them. I love taking pictures of old churches, especially the stain glass. But on this trip, Frank was the photographer in Shrewsbury so all the pictures you see on either here or Flickr is from him. I would be great if we could get him a professional camera instead of my crappy little Fuji. 
We then decided to go into the main city part to see the castle. We were going to walk there until we realized we were a little ways out, luckily we were able to find parking! The town was pretty busy considering it was a Sunday and most lots were full. We lucked out and found one right next to the Tourist Info center.
We managed to get our bearings and headed towards the centre of town where some of the shops were open. But we didn’t stop there we continued up the hill and went to the castle. I was excited to see a castle hoping it would be as well preserved with old furniture and the rooms set up like they were back in the day; but this castle had been turned into a military museum. I wasn’t too keen on going, but Frank wanted to so we ventured inside. I have to say they did a wonderful job setting it up. The displays were informative. But I can only look at guns and flags for so long. Frank wandered I sat. After the museum there was another area to visit, up to the tower. Frank ventured up and I tried to figure out what to do next. 
I have to say I really enjoyed visiting the birthplace of Charles Darwin. I found that they had a great selection of stores and restaurants, plus just enough touristy stuff to keep you busy for the day. Plus on the Sunday they had all these open air acts for either the adults or for the kids. It is one place I would love to visit again and spend a little more time.
We left Shrewsbury to head back to Telford again, since we were going to go for dinner with Jonathan, Sarah and Jon’s best friend/man Jim. We just went to a little pub nearby and had a great laugh. It wasn’t a long night, I think the weekend caught up with everyone and the call of the bed was too much. It was still nice to see everyone one last time before we left the next morning.
On the Monday it was going to be a straight through drive, we arrived at the tunnel early so we were able to get on a different train. We were 2 hours ahead of schedule. The drive home was pretty painless, well for me anyways since Frank drove the whole time. I don’t think we hit traffic until we actually got back into the Netherlands and that was because it was rush hour.
I have to say it was a great trip, it was nice for us to get away and have some time alone.
Now to plan another trip to the UK this time I would like to bring the kids and Stoney.
A few weekends back, Frank and I took of the UK for a wedding of a very good college friend Jonathan and his now wife Sarah. I’ve known Jonathan since the first day of college when he made some smart-ass remark about me playing the flute (no band camp jokes please) and I gave him an evil look. Since then we’ve remained friends and he still has most of his limbs attached.
The wedding was wonderful, the trip there was great minus the nasty, skanky ass hotel that we stayed in in Calais. Yes Erwin I still plan on beating the snot out of you for recommending the hotel. Here let me give a mini version of the play by play weekend vacay!!
We left on Thursday and unfortunately we didn’t really leave on time. As we were packing the car up, Stoney bolted out of the house and jumped into the car into the front seat with a look like ” I’m ready to go!” I felt so bad for taking him out and putting him back in the house, he really does love his car rides. But before I could turn around, he was back in the car, this time when I went to get him he jumped in to the back seat, then jumped into the front on to the floor and did the wet noodle so I couldn’t pick him up. Now I would have brought him with us, especially since Frank’s ex mother in law (stupid @#$%$) cancelled on us 3 days before we were suppose to leave. But Stoney didn’t meet all the requirements to get over the UK border. So we left him at home and had Michelle watch him. Soon we were on the road, until we realized that we forgot the suit and my dress for the wedding; so back we go.
OK finally on the road… the weather was pretty crap out and it stayed that way all through the Netherlands (there’s a surprise), but at least a beautiful rainbow showed up just as we were getting close to the Belgium border.
So it was a nice treat to see. We drove straight through to Calais stopping twice, once for food (Had a craving for MacDonald’s) and once for gas. But eventually after about 4 hours we arrived at the hotel.
Now I didn’t take any pictures of this lovely sh*thole (don’t let the pretty website fool you), I think I was in shock more than anything. The first thing that got me was the outside of the hotel, ugh really? Nasty as. But the kickers didn’t come until we got to our room… or cell… first off, NO TOILET OR SHOWER IN THE ROOM. I may sound like a hotel snob when I say I need a shower and a toilet in my room, well ok.. I am then. I have issues lining up to go pee at 2 am! So that set me in a right mood right there. Next, we asked for a NON smoking room and what do we get? MMMMMMmmmmm cuddling down in to a nice smoke smelling mattress when you are pregnant is so lovely! But lets not forget the fact that the bed looked like it was a cheap version of Ikea put it together yourself crap that was low to the floor and hard as concrete. But the best part of this great adventure was the security guard’s dog that he kept locked in his car outside our window all night! Why was this the best part??? Because the damn thing didn’t shut up! It barked all night long, even after I went downstairs to complain it stopped for oh an hour then started up again. So besides not being able to breath, can’t get comfortable, and the dog, we had a GREAT night and approximately 1 hour of sleep. The only bonus was the breakfast that had fresh baguettes. We tried to complain to the receptionist, but her only reply was that the non smoking rooms were full (no excuse) and that we had to write a letter. So we are in the letter writing process now.
So after leaving the hotel of hell, we started towards the Euro Tunnel to take us to the UK. We arrived fairly early, almost an hour before our scheduled train, so we headed into the duty free shop to mosey around and waste some time. Normally I would be game for shopping, but surviving on one hour of sleep just doesn’t agree with me. Eventually our letter was called and we headed towards customs, goodbye France and not more than 300 feet customs for the UK, hello UK. So now I have two new stamps in my passport and the baby has already travelled through 4 countries and she’s not even born yet. We followed the signs to take us to the train and at 8:20 am it really wasn’t that busy. Once you get to the train you are instructed to turn your lights on and follow the cars in front of you, after driving through a few cars we got to the end and stopped. Put the car in first gear, emergency brake on, windows down and enjoy the 30 minute ride to England. I personally slept. The ride is quite smooth and after a while you forget you are on a train. I have to say, I really don’t think I would travel by ferry again to the UK or vice versa. I enjoyed the ferry travel but this was so much faster!
Now it was time to drive on the other side of the street! I have to say, Frank did pretty darn good with this. He got the hang of it right away; except for one little oopsy in a gas station but heck no one was coming the other way so he got the freebie. I think the part that helped was that as soon as we exited the train we pretty much ended up on the motorway, so you didn’t have the cars coming at you from the other side of the street at a close proximity. As for myself I was a bit out of sorts with it for a little while but soon it didn’t bother me either. We barreled towards Telford, on the other side of Birmingham. It was a nice drive and the weather got a little better the further north we went. We stopped for gas and some treats at a Welcome Break and I think I acted like a 2 year old when I saw Glamour and Cosmo … IN ENGLISH!!!! Plus I had to get some Salt and Vinegar chips…mmmmmmmmm…
After a 4 hour drive to Telford and a bit of running around the city since the GPS didn’t know where she was going, we finally arrived at our hotel. Oh a real hotel!! I mean with real people and real beds and toilet and shower INSIDE the room!! Not to mention a great breakfast the next morning that would run from 6 – 11 !! Not those dumb ass hours from 5-7… really who the hell wants to get up at 5 am to eat breakfast when they are on vacation??? I was able to shower and then take a nap before heading to Wrekin College for the rehearsal at the church.
After the rehearsal, Frank and I went out of Indian at this great restaurant in Wellington. The Dhaka Tandoori restaurant, had wonderful butter chicken… granted I was too full from eating the appetizers. But either way it was delicious. Then after rolling back to the car we decided to just go to the hotel and relax for the night, since the wedding was the next day and we knew it was going to be a long day.
This is the short version of the first two days, I’ll continue soon with the wedding details and our day out in Shrewsbury.
While watching So You Think You Can Dance Canada, I heard a tune that this guy used for his audition in St. John… LOVED IT! So I thought I would put it on here for everyone to enjoy…especially the Canadians!
On the 18th we went for the 20 week scan and of course being the impatient person I am I had to find out the sex. Well… IT’S A GIRL!!
Poor Frank is really out numbered now, with 4 from before and now this making his fifth I feel sorry for him at times. The only other male in the house is Stoney and well I snipped him long ago. I think I might get Frank some male fish to have some company. Maybe they can bond over football or something?? LOL!
Of course as soon as I found out it is going to be a girl I had to go shopping for the first offical pink outfit! I luck out because there’s a baby superstore not to far from me, so I can scoot over anytime instead of having to into the city. We are actually getting the crib set from there and I have bought a few other things previously from the store so I do find the that the price really isn’t that bad. Granted clothing in this country is just expensive in general. Really? 30 euros for BABY pants? 30?? I don’t think so! I did get a few more things yesterday as I went into Utrecht for an intake with Accountemps. Yes they know I’m pregnant but they are going to look for temp work right and keep me high on the list for when I decide to back to work full time. It was placed me with Saxco many moons ago! But back to baby stuff… I found another superstore in Utrecht and without realizing it, there was another one on the next street over. I guess I’m just going to have to go back to that area to take a peek. I managed to spend a few euros at the Baby Planet and bought a purple jogging suit with a hoodie and a few other items that we need. I would like to go back I think once we return from our trip to the UK to see about the tummy tubs, I think they were priced less then some other stores. At the station I went to Prenatal to see what they had and surprisingly enough the clothes were cheaper there. So I bought a little overall jean skirt and a winter jacket! I love the jacket, it’s so soft!!! The nice thing about being here and having a winter baby is that it doesn’t get as cold as it does in Canada so I don’t have to worry about those massive baby-can’t-move snowsuits. Also a cousin bought bought me a snuggly for the stroller that is fleece lined, so she’ll be toasty warm.
The next thing on our list to do is trying to figure out a name….why are we doing it so early you ask? Well Frank and I have different taste on names, I like unique ones (I’m not talking like Moon Unit or Rainbow love) but I want one that is a little less traditional. And he likes traditional. So we have to agree on something. The middle name is done, signed, sealed and delivered. There’s no changing that. We have also decided that once we picked the name we aren’t saying anything until she arrives. We want to keep something a secret!
Right now I’m enjoying the shopping part, buying girl stuff is great!
I just need a job to support the habit!
A little while back a friend from Canada came to the Netherlands to visit her boyfriend, so of course we did dinner (the four of us) at a wonderful Indian restaurant here in Amersfoort. This place is a favourite for Frank and I, so we thought that going there with Danielle and Chris would be a great evening of amazing food. As per tradition with this restaurant (A taste of India) they always serve more food then you can eat. We pretty much rolled ourselves out of there!
Then Danielle and I took a girls’ day and we did some sightseeing in Leerdam. This smallish town is known for their glass work and after a quick tour of a small museum (the main one was being renovated), we headed over to watch some glass blowing. 
I think we could have stayed there all day watching them. We left because it was getting a little crowded and also because my camera’s batteries wore out after the first little film I made! GRRRRRRRR! After sitting in awe for about an hour we stopped and had a bite to eat then wandered the streets. Leerdam is a quaint little town and everything is close together, it makes it very easy to shop. We also stopped at the church for some pictures and then headed home to relax before going out for supper at a pannekoekenhuis. It was a great 
day and nice to see a Canadian face 
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Other events besides the obvious baby shopping, I am no longer working – thank you Resources for wasting my time - and AM looking but holy mamma there is nothing out there. I had one interview for a company in Amstelveen which is located south of A’dam, everything went well and I was even called back for a second interview, the problem is… DISTANCE!!! Now if I was only taking the train to work then ok, I can deal with the hour commute… BUT when you tack on a tram ride for 30 minutes then I have an issue. Plus if I miss the one train from Utrecht I have to wait another 15-30 minutes for the next one. So the day of my second interview, my commute there was 2 hours and my commute home was an hour and a half. Even if this was only for 3 months or so; I’d be dead by the time I got home everything. So the answer to that job was a no. Which is really too bad because I think it is a growing company with great potential and the people that I meet seem very nice… then again I thought that of the last job too.. hmmmm….
As for the house, we’ve put in new carpet in the living room and we are in the (ok Frank is) the process of switching bedrooms. We needed the new carpet since the old one was dark blue and showed EVERYTHING!!! This one is a nice beige with brown flecks and unless it’s black fuzz you really don’t see the lint. Stoney has taken a liking to it, especially if he can cram his little butt in to a small sunbeam on the floor.
He’s giving me squinty eyes because he doesn’t like his picture taken and also because he’s been a real suck lately!! After this was done he sat there and started shaking and giving me sad eyes so that I would pick him up. He’s getting worse in his old age. He’s become possessive of his space and nipped Frank’s toes when Frank got too close to his bed. I don’t know what’s going to happen in January, but I have to break him of this habit and suckyness. I love him to pieces but he has to be on me, near me, in the same room as me, at all times!! Quite annoying.
As for the bedrooms, we’ve taken the master bedroom back and we will share that with the baby for the first few months until we find something that has 4 bedrooms. We bought Ash and Bri new high sleepers from Ikea so they can have their desk space and bed and still have some room in the bedroom. Otherwise with the separate desks, they wouldn’t have any walking space. Also it gives them a bit of privacy since I’m going to put up curtains so they can pull those closed when they want a bit of me time. In their old bedroom, Frank has painted and laid out the linoleum. We would like to put laminate down but that’s just way too expensive for a house we don’t plan on staying in forever. But we still needed to spruce up the rooms for the baby.
Frank is on vacation for the next two week, and well, as we know I’m doing the pogey shuffle even though I can’t collect pogey.
So for now I’m going to continue looking for work, be it full/part/temp. I don’t care anything short of selling a kidney! As for the pregnancy, I feel great and I still haven’t had any morning sickness or any other unpleasant experiences. I had another ultrasound done at 13 weeks and the baby is doing well. This week we have another check up and I can’t remember if we have another ultrasound, I believe so. This kid is going to hate the camera before it’s born!
Ok, not it’s time to finish cleaning and see if Frank needs another beer!
Since I’m not working I’ll probably be able to blog a bit more.
Zwanger
If you are unsure of what the answer is look below
That’s right “zwanger” means pregnant and that’s what I am
I’m due in the beginning of January and so far things have been just fine! No morning sickness or nausea granted now that I said that I’m sure I’ve cursed myself and will wake up puking tomorrow. I feel good so far, except for being tired and the occasional crabbiness but that isn’t any different from any other day hee hee.
We are excited and have two ultrasounds so far. I’m not far enough along to find out the sex but as soon as I know I’ll be sure to announce it.
Here is one picture of the bean…
The lady doing the ultrasound was very nice but every time we saw a good picture she would take it just after the fact. The little bean was moving like he/she had too much coffee! Which by the way I’ve been clean and sober of any coffee or tea for the last two months.. *sigh*.
We are excited about the new addition and it give me a great excuse to shop! We will stay in this house for another year or so then move to a bigger one… once I get another job since Resources decided not to renew my contract. Ya that’s a whole other bleeping story!
But as for right now we are excited since my parents are becoming first time grandparents and my nonna is becoming a great grandmother. Also it has been a while since a new baby has been in the family so this should be fun.
Ok.. I know this is a really short ending to this blog but read above about being tired. Right now I’m forcing myself to stay awake long enough to type this. 9:48pm and I’m ready to crash!
The bean or rather the fig since it should be about that size it is right now and I say “Goodnight”.
I meant to post this a little sooner, but it got a bit busy and I just never found the time to sit and type. Now as I wait for Frank to fire up the bbq and get dinner going, I’ll get some blogging done.
Last year we started to do some work on the backyard, but unfortunately the summer wasn’t the best for us to work in and we really didn’t get a lot done except I did manage to grow a few beans and a couple tomatoes. The flower side never really amounted to much 
because the sun is blocked by these hideous trees that are between the two houses. The patio area had my huge herb garden; which I did get some good use out of, but that was the extent of it.
This year we decided to dump some money into the garden since we are going to be here for at least another year, and we both enjoy sitting in the backyard when the weather is nice. We still have a garden with just tomatoes and beans, but we made it a bit bigger and so far so good. I took the lavender out of the “flower garden” and put that into my big herb pot, then moved my herbs into two smaller pots. I have to say my favourite part of the garden is the new “rock garden” where the flowers use to be. Since nothing grew there to begin with we decided to just cover the area with rocks and put some nice decorative lanterns and keep the raspberry bush and bleeding heart bush. The two top pictures are the work in progress.
Here is the finished rock garden…
I think Frank did a great job with the backyard and we definitelyenjoying it, at least when I don’t have laundry hanging up! But new we like to sit in the back and read or listen to music and more then once we will have dinner outside, especially if it’s bbq.
I would like to get a statue or something else for the rock garden, but nothing has caught my eye just yet. But I’m sure that very soon Praxis will have a sale and I’ll see the pièce de résistance and add it to the garden. But as for now it’s nice to see Stoney follow the sun around the yard and try to get to the warm spots. After a hard day’s work, he found a comfy spot on Frank.
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